About the Book

This book is a self-help book, meant to inspire any person in a state of disability from an implosion of the social structure in his or her life, to rebuild that structure by first understanding the truth about the who, why, and how of the implosion and then summoning the courage to do the rebuilding. My book does so by telling the story of a mature woman whose life imploded from depression, molestation, rape, and overwhelming stress. The story starts not at a point in time, that is contemporaneous with the implosion, but with the starting of that mature woman's life as a little girl, then as an adolescent girl, and then as a young woman, who transitions into that mature woman. It is a story that is too common among little girls, adolescent girls, and young women, and is a story of more than a few men at those ages in life The story is told with related, but unconnected pieces that both come together and lock together as the book progresses. Through my story, I show that bad things can happen to good people, but good people can do bad things.

• Value yourself
• Value your kids
• Heal from Past hurts and failures
• Recognize and Acknowledge mental health disorders
• Learn from past....Do NOT stay in the past
• Listen, without speaking
• Learn effective communication, in order to help yourself and others